My journey
You do not become a FemDom overnight.
Much more dominance is a lifelong progress and a lot of hard work. And whoever tells you, that they were just “born this way” sells you an illusion or does not know what they are talking about.
The human mind and especially human sexuality has always fascinated me. When discovering a documentary about BDSM as a teenager I was immediately invested. I wanted to know more about kinks, fetishes and the different kinds of dynamics. It was just about curiosity at first, but quickly
turned into first experiments. I started off as a sub, quickly realising that this was not for me.
It did not take too long until I tried domination the very first time. And even though it was unfamiliar to me and a little intimidating at first, I still wanted more.
Especially within the first years of learning how to lead submissives I did a lot of research. It always has been my goal to be very good at what I was doing and especially not putting the ones that trust me at risk. Having a medical, as well as a psychological background does help in many
occasions and makes it easier for me to understand the big picture. My knowledge about the human psyche and its neurobiology has a huge influence on the way I shape my devotees. Making sure they do not only learn how to be a good sub but as well grow as a person.
I as well visited a couple of workshops about e.g. replay, shibari, hypnosis and needle play. And of course I plan on broadening my knowledge and skill set even further. Maybe you want to accompany me on one of my next workshops?
My motivation
I love people. Probably that is the main reason why I enjoy being a Domme so much.
I love exploring their minds, making them all weak for me and helping them grow. Domination is not about destruction or pain. It is more about leadership in the first place. Knowing how to guide someone, so that they can put their ego aside and be in their authentic self.
I never dominate out of hatred, even if I humiliate you in the worst ways. I just like to play with the shadows and push limits a little every now and then. But being with me means being safe at all times. Because just as I guide you trough your darkest fantasies, I hold a safe space for you and
caress your soul in the most loving ways.
I have experienced how wonderful it feels to receive true devotion and what it is like to have meaningful D/S-dynamics. That is why later on I decided to share my knowledge and help others too within my mentorships.